I asked for J's support specifically in a manner that would not prevent him from spending some much needed time with you. What I said, exactly, to him, was "If you want to see Lisa on Friday please invite her to come to our house, so that I am not stuck home."
I do not know how this translates to "You have to be home early," but I have been trying as hard as I can to get what I need from him- I have given up rights to SO time, but I do still have a claim on his parenting time, and will for the next 10 years at least- while not screwing anyone else over.
So, bottom line, if you think that I am not treating you fairly, I want to hear it in so many words, in person, and I want to know what you think will FIX the problem.
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Date: 2007-10-09 03:38 am (UTC)What I said, exactly, to him, was "If you want to see Lisa on Friday please invite her to come to our house, so that I am not stuck home."
I do not know how this translates to "You have to be home early," but I have been trying as hard as I can to get what I need from him- I have given up rights to SO time, but I do still have a claim on his parenting time, and will for the next 10 years at least- while not screwing anyone else over.
So, bottom line, if you think that I am not treating you fairly, I want to hear it in so many words, in person, and I want to know what you think will FIX the problem.