Blind spots ..

My daughter and I are talking about making me into a diamond when I die .
Here is part of the conversation -

Bubs red or orange
Me: yeah
Me: those are nice
Bubs: the colors that most suit you
Me: you think ?
Bubs: you dont?
Me: i do
Me: i was just wondering why you do
Bubs: well the colors that suit you the most are fall colors, brown red orange, and you wanted to have red hair always, and you're really opinionated/open and not really scared to say what you want and i associate that color with red



Am I the only person who does not see myself that way?